Wednesday, March 27, 2013

A further introduction



I’d like to ask about you, because I’m more comfortable with that. But part of this “project”, that is, the blogging experience, for me is stepping out of my comfort zone and talking about me. I’m a blonde, naturally, and have always much loved that fact. Underneath the exteriour though, I’m fairly healthy, a sufferer of PMDD, a mother, and a nomad—I include the latter two because they really are a part of the “internal me”. My genetic code seems to be invariably programmed with traits I wasn’t even aware I possessed until I reached a point in my life where I wouldn’t know who I was anymore if I was a Mommy and a wandering soul. Digging even deeper, I’m spiritual to my core.
I like everything. No, really. Okay, not really. I don’t particularly care for rhubarb or okra. That being said, I like just about every other food I’ve ever tasted. I like to change things up in the kitchen. Weekly meals in our household are usually a complex mix of a few staples, something new, and something re-done. Now you might be wondering who I’m implicating with that “our house” statement. Currently, it consists of myself, two wonderfully rambunctious kids, my boyfriend, his dog that I try to love, and a sweet little doggy girl.
My career. Well, I’m a writer. No, not just a blogger-by-night hobby writer, and actual get paid for it writer. I love it. I actually started college as a Journalism major, and somehow finished as a psych major. Regardless, I’ve been a writer at heart for years, even an editor for my school newspaper. I know, bravo right? Actually, I give myself more credit for it now than I ever did then. Before I ever graduated though, I found myself fielding job offers in the writing field and somehow it worked out. I’m grateful every day. A telecommuting job is a mom’s dream after all, isn’t it? Regardless of the passion I have for my career, I still want to be the mom that is home after school. Still, I plan to attend graduate school in the near future and enter the medical field, but I will always be a writer.
On a more relaxed note, as much of a wandering soul as I am, I’m also quite the homebody. I love to travel. Ask anyone who knows me and they’d tell you I am always planning a trip or counting down the days to one. But when I’m home, I like to be home. Nothing is better in my opinion than a calm evening at home with the family or a lazy Saturday spent in sweats watching movies. Now, don’t start thinking I’m lazy; that’s the furthest things from what I am. I am most definitely a worker bee.
So, here I am, slightly vulnerable and a little bit bitchy on this particular evening. I’m wondering how this blogging experience will pan out for me, among everything else going on in my life right now. I hope you’ll join me.

Tuesday, March 26, 2013

About Moi



You might be wondering who the hell I am. Get in line; so am I. Who is the person that stares back at us in the mirror each day? How are you different from me? Maybe you’re not. Maybe you’ll read on and find that you and I have far too much in common to ever part ways now that we’ve stumbled across one another. Perhaps you’ll find that you don’t care for my vulgar attitude, witty banter, and severe honesty. That’s okay too. I bet you still come back at some point to see what I’m up too though. Because I’m that woman… the one with plenty to say, that makes a statement even when she’s silent, and no sir, I do not apologize.  That being said, I’ve been a writer for well, a very long time. I’ve just kept my talents (as some call it) behind closed doors for, well, a very long time.
That being said, I’m unleashing everything I’ve wanted to say to you. All the things I’ve been telling my closest friends for years that need to be pushed further out into the world. But that isn’t all...

 I’m female, so it’s only natural that some days I want to complain, rant, ask for opinions, and ramble to my heart’s content. In return, I hope I’ll hear from you from time to time as well. It is not my intent to educate and inform others every day of my life, but I do think it’s a small purpose we all carry through life. I do feel I’m supposed to tell you the things I know, what I’m sure of, and what I’m not, and I think I’m going to learn something from this process as well. I don’t believe I’m all-knowing or superior in any way to others. I feel that attitude or perception often gets in the way of the lessons we should be learning. As humans, we’re just so damn proud. Still, I bet I know a thing or two that might save you a tear or a heartbreak down the road… something perhaps that could just make your life easily, your soul lighter, your smile wider. Maybe you’ll do the same for me. Maybe we’ll be friends.  Please to have crossed your path either way darling. Let the games begin.